I have a really unhealthy habit.
It’s a habit that I really want to get rid of and try and stop doing.
My unhealthy habit is not staying in contact.
I find it really hard to stay connected to people. It’s not a malicious thing at all. I never outwardly think today I’m going to stop speaking to someone and never call them again.
It’s more of a a life getting in the way thing.
Minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and even years tick on by an then suddenly ‘poof’ you realise that it’s been a while since you last spoke to that person and you ponder on how difficult it will be to make that connection again. How you can rebuild that relationship.
This is a battle that I have with myself all the time.
It’s why my circle in life stays relatively small.
But it is definitely something I’m working on. I want to be able to build sustainable relationships and rebuild ones that I have let drift away.
One of the improvements I am pledging for this year is to make sure I keep in contact with people.
Relationships are important y’all.